Social Pressure Ladies Cooking

Do you like cooking?


I hate cooking, but still, I am cooking on a daily basis just to feed my family.  In the time of covid#19, everyone facing lockdown in their home.  People are cooking by their own. I love to eat different types of food. My friends keep posting food pics to me and my husband, special cuisine which they made for their family.
So Just to make sure my husband does not feel unlucky to have me, I also cook cuisine which required hell hard work.


But I am thinking, who made this rule, that ladies will cook. Why everyman does not learn cooking, as every woman does?

I search google. I asked on twitter but my question's answer is still not known.

Who invented the rule of "Women will cook, Men will earn".


I will make sure when my son and daughter will grow, both will learn cooking, both should know, how to do household work and earning money is basic thing on which all human has right irrespective of their gender.


Still, searching who invented the stupid rule of "Women must know cooking".

Perfect /Imperfect ?

Hi,

Question:-  "Perfection and imperfection"  OR   "Perfection or imperfection" are correct?

Do I mean, what I am trying to say?

Ok!

Lets me rephrase it. Take  "Perfection OR imperfection".
Our society, our family always bounds us to become perfect. Perfect marks, perfect etiquette, Perfect job, Perfect Look, then try to make perfect marriage with perfect partner.

But Perfection come after facing so many imperfection. When We study hard, then only we get marks. In job, After working hard and facing so many daily challenges, you get the salary you want.
God himself is not perfect. Human Makes Mistakes but GOD do mistake only once or twice, that is why he is GOD and we are human. So no human is prefect. So do every marriage and family.
Everyone do mistake, compensate for those mistake, fights  for prefect and life keep on going.


So keep fighting. Nothing is perfect. Failure and hardwork makes things perfect.

Love In Marriage.

Question:- Does your mother love your father OR your grandmother love your grandfather  OR they are habitual of each other in such a way that now they can't survive without each other.

Please do not get angry with my question. It is not a silly question either. Think twice, thrice until you have doubts.

Love:-   Care and Respect you do for each other without expectation.

Suppose your spouse stops doing all those work, which he/she does on a daily basis then the behavior of your partner should not change. Partner keeps praising each other. 

OR

Partner do cares for each other but insulting each other in front of people or in person, then also they are doing just their duty not loving each other.

Now think about the above question's answer again.

When a husband insults his wife by saying "You are stupid", "You do not know anything", "You stay keep quit", "You not perfect for job", "You can not do this". Then all these phrases are equal to insult.

So keep praising your partner. Show confidence in a partner. 

Love will happen one day automatically.

Right or Wrong / Grey Area.

Hi Guys!

Question:- Do you really think that either we are right or we are wrong? Or my right is somebody wrong. Or we do not have anything right or wrong.


I believe in the grey area. Many times I feel nothing is right or wrong. It is just a perspective of the person. I called this perspective which is changing from time to time, with person to person as a grey area.


Love marriage was not allowed at the time of my marriage. My parents are strictly against it. But After 5 years, at the time of my sister's marriage, they were requesting my sister to found a groom of her own choice. Few mothers left their job after the delivery of the baby. Few parents get happier when a baby boy is born.  Few people do not want to do work hard, they believe in satisfaction of the bare minimum.

So in the above all scenario, what is right depending on person to person and their situation. But many people do not understand this grey area. They believe in self-ego and believe in thinking of right or wrong.


For understanding grey area one has to be calm. One has left his/her ego. One has to interact with the opposite option. One has to give time to himself to rethink on right or wrong.



Life will become easy1 once you enter in this grey area.

Kitty Party/ Social Circle.

Hi guys! Are you also a member of a kitty party? Are u a social person?

Well, Guys! I am not. I am not interested in watching Netflix, movies. But time told me how it is so important to be part of a social circle. If you are of it part of it you do not have an opinion, people do not know you. You are not knowledgeable. You are not smart enough or not surrounded by smart people.

Hold on, guys! The above sentence is not mine. It is the damn thinking which I came to know after meeting with few people. Let see how true it is?



"if you know more people, it means you have more power to get done your work".

Now for talking to more people, your personality must be impressive. And good personality depends on when you have the right attitude of listening and right/ correct knowledge of world (Politics, business, people).  When you start speaking publically, then you have to take aside. You need to make an opinion.

Most successful people have a good social circle around then.  And with this social circle, they enter into the market of chain and supply.


So guys ! Have a happy Social gathering. Keep making new friends. 

Fake People / Real Personality.

Hi,

Question :- Are we real personality or we make ourself as a person which the world wants to see? 

The objective of this blog is that I can meet myself. My thoughts are blocked in my mind. I am afraid, if I will show all my thoughts to everyone then I might get judged. Sometimes judgment cost you very much. Suppose I can not tell my boyfriend or husband that how bad they are at sex. I can not tell my office boss that he is pathetic. He does not have technical or managerial skills. I can not tell my teacher that I am getting a bad score because he is a bad teacher.

I do not want to tell my parents that because of their lack of hard work, I am not able to achieve in life, which I might be.

I do not want to tell my husband, because of his small dream, I am not able to stay happy. because I want to become the richest in my state.

I can not tell my friends that I am really not liking them, our hobbies are different. Because I do not have the option of rejecting them and making new friends.

Now see! After reading till here, you guys have started judging me, what kind of person I am. 

So happy judging.

What is Comedy?

Comedy! What is comedy? How it become so popular that people chose comedy as a profession.

I think comedy means truth. The truth which is not usual. So people do laughing at it.

Usually the habit and nature of a person which is uncommon, which is weird, which is unusual when becoming the talk of the town, then people start laughing on it or they make those people change their habits.

All situations, funny talks that a comedian define are actually the situation of someone's life at one time.

Think about it.